your life is worth living even if you’re “not doing anything”
your life is worth living even if you are “letting life pass you by”
your life is worth living even if you stay in bed all day every day watching netflix
you don’t have to be big, beloved, important, beautiful, wealthy or famous
there is dignity in just being
it is ok to be
you merely have to be
"bisexuals are just confused"
this is 100% true. many things confuse me. algebra, 19th century welsh fairy tales, bigots.
i wonder how many people i’m in the “i’d be down if you asked” zone with
I can’t wait for winter because that’s when all mosquitoes die and go to hell where they belong
I added a few more.
Here’s a recap of the alternate universe “if sailor moon were set in a art nouveau paris 1900 world.
I wish to have time to do maybe 3 more like this
Look, there are two ways to deal with a lack of romance when you desire romance (if you don’t desire romance, then this isn’t a problem and you be free, little single butterfly!) The first way is to aggressively pursue it. Online dating, singles mixers, going to bars—you have to make it a goal, and go after it the way people go after careers or accolades.
The second way to deal with a lack of romance is to fill your life with other good things. I have an aunt who never married, and she is the heart of my extended family—in addition to working, she travels with friends, has a great relationship with her sister, lavishes attention on all her nieces and nephews (I’m currently living with her, until I find an apartment). You could call her day or night, and she would be at your side. And she is so loved by us, she is the center of so much, her life is very full.
Honestly, I think that’s the only way to deal with single-dom. You do what you love, fill your life with people and memories and joy. Not because love comes when you’re least looking for it, or because when you’re someone worth loving the “right one” will come along, but because this is your life, and it should be good. It should be good for you. Whether there’s a significant other in that picture or not.
As for large, loud parties, I tend not to go to them anymore, mostly. because I haven’t been a college freshman in a while. Also (spoiler) almost no one actually likes huge loud parties, unless they want to be anonymous and drunk and dancing. But if for some reason you have to go to these parties, then I suggest grabbing a drink and finding a corner where you can people-watch. I spent a lot of nights like that, relishing being alone in a crowd. There’s a kind of meditative quality to being silent amid the noise and dark.
Otherwise, I suggest just…not going? Just saying.
The most hardcore handshake of all time.
i need a friend to have a cool handshake dance with immediately
Cleanse me Lord and rid me of this white skin
Kids are fucking horrific i don’t want any of them